This article describes how people with disabilities can be supported to enter and keep a network of supportive relationships which lead to friendships. It contains a checklist for facilitating participation in social situations which can be used to prompt discussion of how to help people with disability make the best use of opportunities in the community. While directed at staff, the article will be of assistance to family members who are seeking to support their family member to develop and sustain relationships. Keyword: Friendship. Searchword: Inclusion