This paper follows Choreographing Life, an earlier paper on how authority and responsibility can be delegated and shared in right relationship in the lives of people with a disability when they use services that support daily life. In the first paper, families identified elements of life that needed to be maintained as the business of the family and trusted enduring friends. In this second paper, families share their understanding and experience in coming to grips with what needs to be in place in order for these aspects of family authority to continue on in a similar fashion after parents have gone.