The Canadian author, Sarah Gray, is a mother of a child who has a disability. Gray recently attended an inservice for school staff to present a talk on the stresses parents face when fighting for inclusive schooling ("integration" here means "inclusive"). This paper is a portion of the presentation where Gray lists examples of stresses that have affected her, and other parents, such as teacher's negative attitudes, the need for a close liaison between parents and teachers, and the strong need for continuity. Keyword: Inclusion